This page is for the wannabes.
As in wannabe-like-me, of course. Everyday, I get countless emails asking how to be exactly like me, Massie Block. Instead of sorting through all the wikihows and fake articles written by EWs, try this page written by the girl herself.
But before we begin here’s a fair disclaimer: while my life may seem exciting and desirable, it isn’t perfect. We all make mistakes and I’m only human. Therefore, instead of asking how to become like me, try asking yourself how to become the alpha you wish to be.
HAIR: Wash your hair every other day to keep it clean and use conditioner on the ends to get a shiny result. Experiment in unique ways to wear it, like braided buns, half-up loose knots, and feathers or pearl-twined side-braids.
COMPLEXION: Most queen bees are depicted as having smooth, clear skin. Whether this is the result of luck, expensive acne treatments, or heavy coats of makeup, no one knows, but know this: everyone has break-outs during their teen years and you can’t completely stop it. You should wash your face well twice a day (morning/night) and avoid putting greasy fingers on your face or resting your chin in your hand.
Part of being an ah-mazing alpha is taking care of your body. This includes having good hygiene and making sure you’re treating your body right.
DIET: Try to make sure your plate is colorful, as in having all your proteins, meats, dairies on there. Remember that organic foods are always better. Be careful of your sugar and fat intake, just because things are “reduced fat” or “no added sugar” doesn’t mean they’re good for your body- sodas for example- are practically sugar water.
WORKING OUT: Working out requires motivation, doing something you enjoy will help pass the time and distract you from knowing that you’re actually working out. Try doing an interest of yours. Whether it’s cheer-leading, soccer, or tennis, it’s always more fun when you enjoy it. Another tip for motivation is try doing it with friends, which is much more fun. ou don’t need a $60 dollar gym membership to get healthy.
Common misconceptions about a queen bee’s wardrobe are that it must be huge, housed in a walk-in closet the size of a bedroom, and must contain designer brands predominantly. These aren’t true, though. Never buy something you can’t wear 100% confidently, though. Confidence is the key to many doors and many locks, and will improve your appearance better than any foundation or 6′ heels.
Trends are constantly changing and styles vary from person to person, so just remember to have a distinct individual style.
As you know, Massie Block is known for being the queen bee and social butterfly at her school. Below are some tips to gaining more friends.
-Join a club or activity you’re interested in.
-Only hang out with people who are positive influences and make you feel comfortable.
-Volunteer. You’d be surprised how many good people and potential friends you’d find.
-When wanting to talk to someone start off with a compliment. Who’d not want to be friends with someone who just complimented them?
-Stay loyal, especially to the friends who are loyal to you.
-Don’t worry too much about boys, they’re boys and there are billions of more of them if one doesn’t like you back.
-Don’t be afraid to be flirty and fun.
-Sisters before misters! Don’t let a boy get in the way of a friendship.
-You’re 10x more beautiful than you think you are. People perceive you differently than you perceive yourself. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if there is 7 billion people on this planet I guarantee you at least one of them will think you’re drop dead gorgeous, despite what you think of yourself.
-Smile. Be approaching.
-Keep your head high, chest lifted, and strut down the hallways. The confidence will show and it’s been proven that confidence is attractive. Remember this quote? “They’re only special because they think they are, so other people do.” Keep that in mind.
I’ve never believed in picking friends, I honestly think fate decides that. The critical point under this segment is to choose friends that you honestly connect with. You can’t pick the most popular, “Alicia-, Kristen-, Dylan-, and Claire-like” people who you find, and deign them to be your friends. We all remember how that worked out for Alicia, right?
Above all, stay true to yourself and don’t try to be someone you’re not. There’s nothing more EW than a poser. You’ll enjoy life a lot more if you surround yourself with people you enjoy being with. ♥
Requests: I do take requests in the comments. If you have something you would like me to add to this page, simply request it and I’ll see if I can. (: